We already brought you part one of our list of 15 things you probably did not know about first-time sex, and now we’re back with part two! Check out eight more fascinating facts about the exciting and sometimes terrifying experience of losing your virginity that you definitely (probably) did not know below. You might be surprised by what you find out!
Number Eight: Females Probably Won’t Have an Orgasm the First Time
Sorry, ladies. Having sex tends to be much more psychologically-driven for women than for men, so if you’re not completely comfortable – and you probably won’t be your first time – you probably won’t reach orgasm. But don’t give up! Women who are psychologically and emotionally comfortable with their partner are much more likely to orgasm.
Number Seven: Men Tend to Orgasm Extremely Quickly Their First Time
Ironically, while most women don’t orgasm at all during their first encounter with sex, men tend to orgasm faster than they would like. Rather than focusing on something to prolong the experience, it’s better to just enjoy the moment and focus on the pleasure.
Number Six: Erectile Dysfunction Is Completely Normal
Especially if men are nervous before their first time having sex. ED is not just something that 50-year-old and older men experience, so if you can’t get it up before your first time, don’t worry. You’ll have other opportunities.
Number Five: Use a Condom During First-Time Sex – No Matter What
It might be tempting to forego the condom if it’s your first time, but this is absolutely a terrible idea. Ladies – you can get pregnant your first time having sex! Always use protection.
Number Four: Don’t Try to Recreate Porn Videos
Though people who haven’t had sex tend to attach their ideas of what sex involves to pornographic videos or what they’ve seen in movies, this is a terrible idea. In reality, sex is nothing like what you see in pornographic videos. Just try and enjoy it to your own liking.
Number Three: You Won’t Be Emotionally Bonded to Your First Partner
It’s a complete myth that people will forever be attached to the first person they have sex with. Though it might be a long-lasting memory, it’s not an eternal bond that can never be broken by someone else.
Number Two: There’s No Right Time to Do It
And hyping up the main event will likely lead to disappointment. If you feel like you’re ready, then you probably are.
Number One: It’s OK to Be Really Nervous
Seriously! Everyone is nervous before their first time. It might not be sexy, but it’s true. We hope you enjoyed our list of 15 things you didn’t know about first-time sex!